What did you say???

While discussing my son with the ex-husband on a few moments ago, he throws a tidbit at me before hanging up.

He got married last Friday.

*I am speechless*

Disturbing Happenings

I have been a bit quiet here at the old blog.  There is something going on in real life that is eating me up.  There is no way to talk about it in "code" so I haven't been able to come here to vent or ask for advice.

One of my sons has been caught in the same lie for a 3rd time.  It is a big lie.  It is not an age appropriate activity for him.  Actually, its not a biblically appropriate activity.  What he has been caught doing has twice threatened one of his brother's education.

He does not seem to understand the ramifications of his choices and quite honestly seems very cold and uncaring about it.  I am terrified at what this can mean for his future.  Will he be the kind of person that makes choices no matter who they may harm?

Will he put himself in harms way just for a thrill?

I don't know.  I don't even know who to talk to about this because it is embarrassing and nobody wants to admit that their child has done something of this magnitude.

My heart is breaking.

I do indeed love my life

All rotten happenings aside, I am a truly blessed woman. So much is right in my life.  I am just in a rough patch and feel a bit overwhelmed. 

And my best friend's sweet baby girl has crazier hair than Jack now.  Tell me she isn't precious!  That is my future daughter in law, right there.

Bullets

*I just got back from the E.R. with Jackson. His older brothers rocked on his big toe while teeter tottering and he has a nail plate avulsion. The previous link is graphic, be warned.

He can not walk for 5 days and I have to change his bandage 3 times a day and check to make sure the nail is still under the cuticle. Its gross.



*Sassy is still missing. At this point, I doubt she will return. The weather hasn't been awful, but it hasn't been cat friendly.

*There are 15 crocs adopted so far for the VBS fundraiser. I was so happy to see that.

*I lovely old lady responded to my request for artificial plants on Freecycle and I will go pick them up tomorrow.

*I need a vacation from life. Is Calgone still around??

A good Apraxia article


Apraxia

Apraxia results from an impaired ability to generate the motor programming for speech
movements. It is not a disorder in the transmission of messages to the speech musculature.
Apraxia is a planning/programming problem, not a movement problem like dysarthria. Apraxia
is a problem in assembling the appropriate sequence of movements for speech production or the
execution of the appropriate serial ordering of sounds for speech. The primary disorder is an
inability to program articulatory movements. Apraxia is always the result of a central nervous
system lesion and is a cortical problem.
In apraxia, errors are inconsistent and unpredictable. Different error patterns occur in
spontaneous speech versus repetition. Students’ spontaneous speech contains fewer errors than
does his/her speech in repetition tasks. When producing rote material or that which has become
automatic, the student will speak clearly. Substitutions are the most common type of error.
Approximations of the targeted phoneme are also expected. Other types of errors found in
apraxic speech include repetitions, additions, transpositions, prolongations, omissions and
distortions. Errors are often perseveratory in nature. As in stuttering, the anticipation of errors
causes dysfluent speech. Apraxic speech is full of groping along with trial and error types of
articulatory movements. This could be due to the anticipation of errors. For a student with
apraxia, vowels may be easier to produce than consonants. Problems with voice and resonance
are not symptomatic of this disorder.


Apraxia of speech may occur without concomitant swallowing problems. The movements of the
velum, lips, tongue and jaw will only be impaired during speech. Diadochokinesis will be slow
and abnormal, and syllables will be produced out of order.
Characteristics of apraxia in children according to Smit (2004)
Significantly reduced intelligibility Severely limited consonant inventory with many omissions
Reduced syllable inventory Assimilation and transposition errors
Vowel errors Groping evident in articulation attempts
Inconsistent production of the same word Performance reduces with increased sentence length and complexity
Prosodic errors Better performance in single words than in sentences
Isolated instances of well articulated words that are not evident again

Characteristics in the history of students with apraxia
Poor feeding in infancy Drooling past an age typically seen
Sensory aversions Relative quiet infancy
Generally clumsy Slow progress in treatment

Nonspeech Characteristics
Resists imitating modeled words
Uses gestures to relay message Avoids speaking
Relies on family members as translators

Concomitant Characteristics
Receptive language skills above expressive language Poor vocabulary and wordfinding
Symptoms of central neuromotor disorder: perseveration, difficulty inhibiting contradictory behaviors, fatigues easily

APB

 
My sweet girl is missing.  She must have gotten outside which she is not equipped to handle.  Pray for her return, will ya?  I miss my Sassafras.

Poor parenting

Sometimes I wonder what I am teaching my kids.
I took this picture of my sweet baby boy the other day.




I find this "improved" version tonight.

I actually laughed really hard before rolling my eyes.
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